NYC

“New York City is a panic attack on Houston and Essex, it’s a broken down Q train, it’s a 45 minute schlep to work. New York City is finding yourself in your friend’s ex-girlfriend’s most recent ex-boyfriend’s apartment, it’s a roof in Brooklyn, it’s a bar in the East Village. New York City is a fake ID that expired 3 years ago, it’s an $8 show that changed your life, it’s a kitten found in a box 2 blocks from the office. New York City is a text message that was never responded to, it’s a photo pass to your favorite concert, it’s free drinks on a ship in mid-July. New York City is being in love with everyone you see, it’s a cup of coffee that makes you crazy, it’s your friend putting lipstick on you outside the venue 10 minutes before the show. New York City is platform shoes, it’s a pair of Converse, it’s taking a couple of Advil when you get home. New York City is thrifted treasure, it’s a stoop sale that saved your life, it’s the best cup of cocoa chai you’ve ever had. New York City is a sweaty room full of BK’s hippest, it’s missing an opportunity only to get another, it’s a lot of anxiously waiting. New York City is realizing your dream, it’s passing your current boss’s girlfriend on campus, it’s an iChat that got sent to the wrong person. New York City is a library full of tired kids, it’s a brownstone full of addicts, it’s a dorm room full of outsiders. New York City is a laugh attack in a quiet room, it’s a crick in your neck, it’s a stack of vinyl in your desk drawer. New York City is a walk to the waterfront, it’s an endless conversation, it’s 4 cups of tea in one work day. New York City is a revelation, it’s an exchange of words with the nicest stranger, it’s a never-ending beginning.”

“make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt. So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun. If you want to get more out of life, you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy. But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty.”


― Jon Krakauer, Into the Wild

"Sometimes, it feels like we live in a time where trust holds no value - institutionally and systemically, we are pretty much labelled un-trustworthy. Of course these social systems serve a purpose, but too often we let this kind of overtly cautious thinking permeate into our everyday life and ultimately, we take it as an appropriate general description of things, or worse, a truth. But there comes a time when it isn’t one, when we should learn to put our faith in others (and sometimes, ourselves!) - you’d be surprised how far you can go, by just having a little bit of faith."

Love is a temporary madness

“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don’t blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being “in love”, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.” — Louis de Bernières (Captain Corelli’s Mandolin)

“A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. Never leave that till tomorrow, he said, which you can do today. This is the man who discovered electricity. You think more people would listen to what he had to say. I don’t know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I’d have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you’re wrong? What if you’re making a mistake you can’t undo? The early bird catches the worm. A stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can’t pretend we hadn’t been told. We’ve all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today’s possibility under tomorrow’s rug until we can’t anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Franklin really meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.”

El lado oscuro del corazon

"Me importa un pito que las mujeres tengan los senos como magnolias o como pasas de higo, un cutis de durazno o de papel de lija. Le doy una importancia igual a cero al hecho de que amanezcan con un aliento afrodisíaco o con un aliento insecticida. Soy perfectamente capaz de soportar una nariz que sacaría el primer premio en una exposición de zanahorias, pero eso sí, y en esto soy irreductible, no les permito, bajo ningún pretexto, que no sepan volar. Si no saben volar, pierden el tiempo conmigo."

“We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.”
— Dr Seuss

101 Simple Truths We Often Forget

Sometimes we find ourselves running in place, struggling to get ahead simply because we forget to address some of the simple truths that govern our potential to make progress. So here’s a quick reminder:

The acquisition of knowledge doesn’t mean you’re growing. Growing happens when what you know changes how you live.
You can’t have good ideas unless you’re willing to generate a lot of bad ones.
A good idea without action is worth nothing.
Change is often resisted when it is needed the most.
Discipline is choosing what you want most over what you want right now. Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
People seldom do things to the best of their ability. They do things to the best of their willingness.
You can’t change other people; you can only offer guidance, and lead by example.
Right now, there’s a lot you don’t know. And if you never challenge your own beliefs, the list will never shrink.
If you’re talking to someone you don’t know well, you may be talking to someone who knows way more about the topic of conversation than you do.
The most common and harmful addiction in the world is the draw of comfort.
Growth begins at the end of your comfort zone. Stepping outside of your comfort zone will put things into perspective from an angle you can’t grasp now.
When you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want.
It’s usually only as good or bad as you think it is. Most of what we see is only what we think about what we see.
Most of the bad things you worry about will never happen. Most of the bad things that do happen will have never have crossed your worried mind.
Some circumstances are uncontrollable, but we can always decide how we react to those circumstances.
Those who complain the most, accomplish the least.
Whenever somebody discredits you, and tells you that you can’t do something, keep in mind that they are speaking from within the boundaries of their own limitations.
Every problem you have in your life right now is your responsibility, regardless of who initially caused it.
It’s not so much about finding opportunities as it is about creating them.
Having a plan, even a flawed one at first, is better than no plan at all.
Paving your own road is intelligent only if nobody has gone exactly where you are going.
What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.
What you don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow.
If you’re waiting for the perfect conditions, ideas or plans to get started, you’ll never achieve anything.
Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.
Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier.
You cannot change what you refuse to confront.
If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
The harder you work, the luckier you will become.
Kindness and hard work together will always carry you farther than intelligence.
Lots of successful people have failed as many times as they have succeeded.
Failures are simply lessons that help you prepare for next time.
Being successful is a journey, not a destination.
To be successful does not mean you have to dominate others; it means you have to dominate your own potential.
Your success isn’t just about you. It’s about how you positively impact the lives around you.
Being busy and being productive are two different things.
Being happy and being successful are two different things.
You have every right to be happy, but it’s up to YOU and only YOU to exercise that right. Read Stumbling on Happiness.
Everyone you meet is better than you at something. We all have different strengths. What worked for someone else might not work for you.
When you’re worried about what others think of you, you’re really just worried about what you think of yourself.
The bad news: nothing is permanent. The good news: nothing is permanent.
You don’t have to settle. It’s simply a choice you make every day. If you don’t like your life, then it’s time to start making changes and better choices.
There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’ Everything you do or don’t do has an inherent risk.
No matter how smart you are, you will make mistakes.
Problems, when they arise, are rarely as painful and hurtful as the process of fearing them.
Confusion isn’t a bad thing. It means you’re growing and thinking.
Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
In the beginning, you need to say “yes” to a lot of things to discover and establish your goals. Later on, you need to say “no” to a lot of things and concentrate on your goals.
Even if it doesn’t cost any money, it’s not free if it takes up your time.
No matter how you make a living or who you think you work for, you only work for one person, yourself. The big question is: What are you selling, and to whom?
Money makes life easier only when it’s yours free and clear. The stress of financial debt can change a person.
The fewer possessions you own, the more you will use and enjoy them.
Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile.
There is good reason why you should wake each morning and mindfully consider what and who you will give your day to: Because unlike other things in life - love, money, respect, good health, hope, opportunities, and many more - time is the one thing you can never get back once it’s gone.
Cutting your losses is often better than the alternative.
We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset.
Screaming at people always makes things worse.
Everyone likes a person who gets straight to the point.
First impressions are oftentimes inaccurate judgments of a person’s true character.
When you’re up, your friends know who you are. When you’re down, you know who your friends are.
If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.
When someone truly loves you, they don’t ever have to say a word. You will be able to tell simply by the way they treat you over the long-term.
We rarely lose friends, we usually just figure out who our real ones are.
Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does.
Family isn’t always blood. They’re the people in your life who want you in theirs – the ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.
Good looks attracts the eyes. Personality attracts the heart.
In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart.
Being nice to someone you dislike doesn’t mean you’re fake. It means you’re mature enough to control your emotions.
If you aren’t happy being single, you won’t be happy in a relationship. You have to create your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
Whenever you hate someone or something, you are giving that person or thing a piece of your heart. Read The Road Less Traveled.
Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.
It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
Saying “no” to right people gives you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities.
When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.
You can raise the bar or you can wait for others to raise it. Either way, it’s getting raised.
In life you get what you put in. If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It really is this simple.
Cynicism might seem warranted at times, but it’s never useful.
Everyone dies, some sooner than later, and often unexpectedly. To know this means you are alive, with a chance to make the time you have left count.
You are in competition with one person and one person only – yourself. You are competing to be the best you can be.
Trying to be somebody you’re not is a sure path to self-hate, and a waste of the person you are.
It’s better to be disliked for who you are than to be liked for who you are not.
Giving up doesn’t always mean you’re weak, sometimes it means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go.
Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
You can’t make the same exact mistake twice. The second time you make it, it’s no longer a mistake, it’s a choice.
Not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
You never have to deal with more than one moment at a time.
Many of the greatest lessons we learn in life we don’t seek on purpose.
You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life.
A harsh fact of life: Bad things do happen to good people.
Regardless of the situation, the sun rises the next day and life goes on.
You never know how strong you really are until being strong is the only choice you have.
We end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer.
Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours.
People are not as beautiful as they look, as they walk, or as they talk. They are only as beautiful as they love, as they care, and as they share.
Silence is often the loudest cry. So pay attention to those you care about.
Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world.
Blowing out another’s candle will not make yours shine brighter.
No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.
Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.
Life is short. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.


Source:http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/01/15/101-simple-truths-we-often-forget/

“make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt. So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun. If you want to get more out of life, you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy. But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty.”


― Jon Krakauer, Into the Wild

Sal con una chica que lee

Sal con una chica que lee


Sal con alguien que se gasta todo su dinero en libros y no en ropa, y que tiene problemas de espacio en el clóset porque ha comprado demasiados. Invita a salir a una chica que tiene una lista de libros por leer y que desde los doce años ha tenido una tarjeta de suscripción a una biblioteca.

Encuentra una chica que lee. Sabrás que es una ávida lectora porque en su maleta siempre llevará un libro que aún no ha comenzado a leer. Es la que siempre mira amorosamente los estantes de las librerías, la que grita en silencio cuando encuentra el libro que quería. ¿Ves a esa chica un tanto extraña oliendo las páginas de un libro viejo en una librería de segunda mano? Es la lectora. Nunca puede resistirse a oler las páginas de un libro, y más si están amarillas.

Es la chica que está sentada en el café del final de la calle, leyendo mientras espera. Si le echas una mirada a su taza, la crema deslactosada ha adquirido una textura un tanto natosa y flota encima del café porque ella está absorta en la lectura, perdida en el mundo que el autor ha creado. Siéntate a su lado. Es posible que te eche una mirada llena de indignación porque la mayoría de las lectoras odian ser interrumpidas. Pregúntale si le ha gustado el libro que tiene entre las manos.

Invítala a otra taza de café y dile qué opinas de Murakami. Averigua si fue capaz de terminar el primer capítulo de Fellowship y sé consciente de que si te dice que entendió el Ulises de Joyce lo hace solo para parecer inteligente. Pregúntale si le encanta Alicia o si quisiera ser ella.

Es fácil salir con una chica que lee. Regálale libros en su cumpleaños, de Navidad y en cada aniversario. Dale un regalo de palabras, bien sea en poesía o en una canción. Dale a Neruda, a Pound, a Sexton, a Cummings y hazle saber que entiendes que las palabras son amor. Comprende que ella es consciente de la diferencia entre realidad y ficción pero que de todas maneras va a buscar que su vida se asemeje a su libro favorito. No será culpa tuya si lo hace.

Por lo menos tiene que intentarlo.

Miéntele, si entiende de sintaxis también comprenderá tu necesidad de mentirle. Detrás de las palabras hay otras cosas: motivación, valor, matiz, diálogo; no será el fin del mundo.

Fállale. La lectora sabe que el fracaso lleva al clímax y que todo tiene un final, pero también entiende que siempre existe la posibilidad de escribirle una segunda parte a la historia y que se puede volver a empezar una y otra vez y aun así seguir siendo el héroe. También es consciente de que durante la vida habrá que toparse con uno o dos villanos.

¿Por qué tener miedo de lo que no eres? Las chicas que leen saben que las personas maduran, lo mismo que los personajes de un cuento o una novela, excepción hecha de los protagonistas de la saga Crepúsculo.

Si te llegas a encontrar una chica que lee mantenla cerca, y cuando a las dos de la mañana la pilles llorando y abrazando el libro contra su pecho, prepárale una taza de té y consiéntela. Es probable que la pierdas durante un par de horas pero siempre va a regresar a ti. Hablará de los protagonistas del libro como si fueran reales y es que, por un tiempo, siempre lo son.

Le propondrás matrimonio durante un viaje en globo o en medio de un concierto de rock, o quizás formularás la pregunta por absoluta casualidad la próxima vez que se enferme; puede que hasta sea por Skype.

Sonreirás con tal fuerza que te preguntarás por qué tu corazón no ha estallado todavía haciendo que la sangre ruede por tu pecho. Escribirás la historia de ustedes, tendrán hijos con nombres extraños y gustos aún más raros. Ella les leerá a tus hijos The Cat in the Hat y Aslan, e incluso puede que lo haga el mismo día. Caminarán juntos los inviernos de la vejez y ella recitará los poemas de Keats en un susurro mientras tú sacudes la nieve de tus botas.

Sal con una chica que lee porque te lo mereces. Te mereces una mujer capaz de darte la vida más colorida que puedas imaginar. Si solo tienes para darle monotonía, horas trilladas y propuestas a medio cocinar, te vendrá mejor estar solo. Pero si quieres el mundo y los mundos que hay más allá, invita a salir a una chica que lee.

O mejor aún, a una que escriba.

-Rosemary Urquico

“I’m not fascinated by people who smile all the time. What I find interesting is the way people look when they are lost in thought, when their face becomes angry or serious, when they bite their lip, the way they glance, the way they look down when they walk, when they are alone and smoking a cigarette, when they smirk, the way they half smile, the way they try and hold back tears, the way when their face says they want to say something but can’t, the way they look at someone they want or love… I love the way people look when they do these things. It’s… beautiful.”
— Unknown

“La única gente que me interesa es la que está loca, la gente que está loca por vivir, loca por hablar, loca por salvarse, con ganas de todo al mismo tiempo, la gente que nunca bosteza ni habla de lugares comunes, sino que arde, arde como fabulosos cohetes amarillos explotando igual que arañas entre las estrellas.”
— Jack Kerouac (fragmento de “En el camino”

“The answer is never the answer. What's really interesting is the mystery. If you seek the mystery instead of the answer, you'll always be seeking. I've never seen anybody really find the answer. They think they have, so they stop thinking. But the job is to seek mystery, evoke mystery, plant a garden in which strange plants grow and mysteries bloom. The need for mystery is greater than the need for an answer.”
― Ken Kesey

“The only reason we hold back, is because we think we have an endless amount of chances or that there will always be one more. But as time disappears into the past and life goes on, those chances will run out, and you’ll either live with eternal happiness for being brave, or eternal regret for holding back.”

Proverbio Arabe

No digas todo lo que sabes.
No hagas todo lo que puedes.
No creas todo lo que oyes.
No gastes todo lo que tienes.
PORQUE
El que dice todo lo que sabe.
El que hace todo lo que puede.
El que cree todo lo que oye,
El que gasta todo lo que tiene.
MUCHAS VECES
Dice lo que no le conviene.
Hace lo que no debe.
Juzga lo que no ve.
Gasta lo que no tiene.

todo es cuestion de,

ACEPTACION...
de todo lo que el otro es...
de todo lo que el otro fue...
de todo lo que el otro sera...
y ... de lo que ya no es ...

“Para Adán, el paraíso era donde estaba Eva.” — Mark Twain

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.

1. You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever.

2.Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith.......work,love? keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.

"If today were the... last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?"

3.Time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma ....have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.

Lessons from Steve Jobs

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